Clingy girlfriends – attractive or not?
Dear Better Sex Guide,I don’t understand why my girlfriend is so clingy, she can’t even make a decision on her own and it is really beginning to annoy me. Before I moved in with my girlfriend, I used to date London escorts all the time. I found they really attractive and sexy, and they were all super conﬁdent. First I thought it was me but now I know it is my girlfriend. She just isn’t conﬁdent and I am not sure I am going to be able to stand it for too much longer.
I miss my Cheap Charlotte London escorts like mad and wish I would have stayed single.Dating London escorts was a complete lifestyle choice for me. I have a really good job and earn excellent money, but I felt I wanted to have some permanently in my life. Of course, London escorts are sexy companions and you cannot expect them to be in your life all the time. The thing is, now that my girlfriend and I are together, I am not sure a permanent relationship is for me. I think I would much rather be single and date sexy companions than having to put up with my girlfriend. Every minute of the day she wants to know where I am and what I am doing. As soon as I want to go out, she asks me where I am going and when I am going to be back. Believe me, at the moment I really miss my London escorts. Better Sex Guide – can you help me out here please. Thank you – Tony in BatterseaDear Tony in Battersea,Let me ask you – did your girlfriend know that you used to date London escorts? If she does know about your previous lifestyle, it might explain a lot of what is going on today. She probably thinks that you are going to sneak off and start dating your London sexy companions again, this is what is making her so unsure. Reassurance is very important to women, and you need to reassure your girlfriend that you are not going to date London escorts again.
Tell her the truth, you are all hers and start building up her self-conﬁdence. But more than anything, you need to start building up her trust in you. It is easier said than done, and you really need to make sure that you can make her feel special as well. Are you doing that? Up until now you have paid for female companionship, but now your lifestyle has really changed. You have replaced your London escorts for a permanent female companion and she must be allowed to feel special.Make her trust you and show to her that you have put all your London escorts days behind you and that you are now ready to fully commit to her. Transitioning from dating London escorts to a regular life is not easy, and you may ﬁnd that it is going to be a real uphill struggle, but you need to decide what route you want to go down.